Remember when you were young and single…. remember when you were feeling poorly…. you would crawl out of bed and phone work and say you weren’t coming in that day and then you would crawl back into bed and go back to sleep.
Sigh…..
Remember when you got out of bed…nothing had happened. Absolutely nothing had changed.
The house would be exactly as you left it when you went to bed. No cupboards would have exploded their contents all over the kitchen. And no miscellaneous shoes, bags and crap would have appeared anywhere!
The washing pile may only have a few more PJ’s in and not have got so big it started walking itself down the stairs.
The fridge and cupboards would still have the food in it that was there before you were ill. The junk food would still be there.
The dishes in the sink would maybe be a tea mug and a plate, that you used to have some toast. Not a pile so big that it rivalled the Himalayas.
Nobody would really even have noticed that you had disappeared for a bit to recover. Nobody would have needed you to drive them anywhere, or cook them dinner or do anything. Everybody would have left you completely alone, they wouldn’t have talked at you incessantly through your pounding headache.
The house would have been silent, completely silent. No TV, no Tablets blaring Youtube, no shoot’em up computer games. Silent…very, very silent.
And the most amazing thing is that you would have fully recovered, because you had done the sensible thing that your body needed. You had rested, totally rested. You would bounce back to normal because you were young, and your body had been given the blissful time it needed to heal.
Sigh….
I miss that…..
I could cry that I miss that so very much….